Brent Boeckman
Hi, I'm Brent.
I help men create life on their own terms.
I am a loving man, husband, and father who has healed through childhood abuse, addiction, and emotional isolation to build the life of my dreams. At one point I was facing serious jail time, overwhelmed by debt, and failing my marriage.
Through deep introspection, therapy, and somatic healing, I was able to build a life where I thrive in connection and continued growth. My marriage is beautiful, my relationship with my son is blossoming, I’m living my dream career, and I am many years sober.
I became a coach because I know I am not special, but that we all have struggles and traumas that plague us, keeping us from who we’re meant to be. Every man deserves a chance to rewrite their story, as I did, and that is what I live to offer. I was given a second chance to create the life of my dreams, and ever since then I have been helping men to create theirs. Don’t get me wrong, there was nothing easy about it, and there are still struggles, but it is a wonderful journey that I enjoy more often than not. I am present and feel my emotions.
Over the last decade I have been featured on ABC news, the LA Times, and have been a speaker at numerous conferences. I’ve coached hundreds of men and helped them to reconnect with themselves, their loved ones, and to build a life of abundance.
I would be honored to be a passenger on your journey.
Warmly,
Brent
In the World
Over the last decade I have continued to further my education by certifying in leadership programs, behavioral change modification, somatic experiencing, meditation and most recently breath work. It is an important part of my life that I continue to grow and provide additional tools to my own life as well as my clients.
Combatting Male Loneliness
Authenticity Road Podcast
2023 CapTex Triathlon
Conquering fear and completing my 4th triathlon.
Joshua Tree Retreat 2023
Leading a silent walking meditation to start our day.
RESET Retreat with Mike Sagun
Cohosting a men's reset retreat with the talented Mike Sagun.
Building A Life In Sobriety
In 2016 I hit a rock bottom. It finally became clear to me that I was an addict. I got a sponsor, worked the 12 steps, and found sobriety. Did I maintain it perfectly? Of course not, but I got really curious about why. Working a program helped bring light to the darkness, but it didn't remove it, so I went deeper into my past and my emotions.
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It was then that I realized the triggers causing my acting out were old trauma wounds playing themselves out. Therapy helped, but I needed to express and work through the old pain so it could finally be laid to rest.
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Celebrating now over 4 years sober, I have repaired my marriage, build a beautiful bond with my son and live a life I had only dreamed of.
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My mission in life is to bring the same tools and possibility to the lives of the men that I work with.